When I see that people come to my blog because they want to know why women don’t sew anymore, I wish I could flag them down and that we could sit and have tea and discuss this. I would tell them how much I enjoy sewing and that if I didn’t have such a compulsion to write romance novels, I would be spending even more time in my little sewing room.
My favorite thing about sewing is that I can get my clothes to fit perfectly. My next favorite thing is that I can make clothes out of real fabric, like cotton. The next favorite is that I can keep making clothes in the styles that I like. Let’s face it, the designers keep changing styles on us so that we’ll buy new clothes. The clothes I make last forever and they are my favorites. My son teases me because I still like bell-bottoms. (Flair? Boot cut? What’s not to like? I find them slimming.) I have a box of old patterns from the sixties and seventies and I use them again and again.
What I don’t like is that there are not fabric stores any more. Not like there used to be. There are quilt making stores and there are a few fabric stores but much of the fabric is synthetic and I much prefer working with cotton. And I don’t like paying high prices for fabric that I don’t like anyway. I live in rural America so it’s harder for me. You should see the look on my face when I walk into a “real” fabric store. Wow. You too?
If you are new to sewing, let me give you one tip. If you work with cotton it “gives.” You have to pull it a little bit and kinda stretch it to fit. You have to make it work for you. For example, if you are sewing a sleeve to the main front and back of a blouse, you need to manipulate the sleeve to fit correctly with the notches. Even if it requires you to “gather” it a little, it still needs to be manipulated in place and that is done by kinda stretching. If you don’t feel like you’re cheating a little, you’re not doing it right. LOL. Cotton will let you do that. And last but not least, don’t be so hard on yourself and start simple.
Suellen Ocean is the author of Mississippi Wild Blue, a Civil War Era Romance. Available here: Mississippi Wild Blue: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072L2WWMR